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Hi, I am new to this but I think it’s a good idea to share some of my feelings with people who read this. I am not trying to sound mean at all and I hope nobody takes this post the wrong way. I am also sorry that it is so long but maybe I can find someone that understands me and isn't like a lot of people I run into these days in the real world. (Please put your email address in the email you send me, because my new isn't letting me reply back correctly. Plus I’ll be able to know if your real. i keep getting so much spam. You might have to send it twice. Stupid lol. I answer back pretty fast. Thanks.)
There is a lot I don't understand when it comes to people and their outlook on love. One thing I don't get is when people say does he/she have there "shit together". I think that sounds a little too materialistic to me. Is that what love is all about, material things?
Is having money and nice things is what keeps a couple together for a lifetime? To me, I don't really think so. Because you have a fancy ride, a high paying job and a nice home doesn't mean you have your "shit together". I feel you have your "shit together" when you know who you are on the inside and you open your heart to love a woman for who she is and everything she is about, without any doubts. I think you have your "shit together" when you figure out what real love is and that it has nothing to do with money or judgments that bring you in doubt. Learning to love someone for who they are is so simple when a person can set aside their insecurities and there selfish ways and love someone fully as one. To look at them every day without any doubts and say "I love you" without thinking twice about it. I just feel love should be free with happiness and caring and full of trust. Inner strength that makes you feel comfortable to be with that person without any worries and doubts. Holding them and loving them every day and knowing who you really are so there is no change in the future that will destroy the love that was built by both hearts. To me unconditional love doesn't seem to exist anymore and it's so sad because so many are missing out on so much happiness in life. Loving someone and building their confidence to be proud of whom they are is a wonderful feeling. Cause I know that, If you can do that for someone, then you will get that in return. It’s the natural part of loving someone. That’s real love.
All I know is, I’m here being myself. This is me and this is how I feel. I want to only be with someone that can be themselves and never have to worry about trying to be someone they don't want to be, to make the other one happy. It's so cruel what I see when I go out and how couples treat each other, I just know a lot about love and I have felt the beauty of it and I know what it can do. It's a very beautiful feeling if people would just open up their hearts and feel it. When I go out to places I have noticed that some women/men are being a little too selective. "You are not looking for a job; you are looking for a Love." I am not trying to put anyone down what so ever, but I myself have been down that selective road before. I always judged people by their looks and what I can benefit from them, from being with them. And WOW. I learned the hard way. And almost all women and men learn the hard way later in life. The couple is never happy and they just split. People change, and when the love fails its only because the couple went after what they can benefit from and not the true love that lies deep in their hearts. I truly feel that some people’s expectations way too much and they shouldn't be anyway. Only your heart can decide if the person is right for you. Not your mind. Love with your heart and you will see more happiness than you ever have.
I think somewhere in people’s lives, they stopped thinking with their hearts and they let their minds take over which brought their standards up. They didn't know they did it. It just happens. It happens to a lot of people. Being with people that lie and cheat and back stab etc, can really hurt people for so long. They slowly build this wall on their hearts throughout the years and start becoming very selective. I can understand why it happens. Hell, it happened to me. There still isn't any sense in taking it out on people you don't know. We are all different in our own ways. Thinking too much about someone with your mind will only bring trouble down the road which will bring you right back to where you started. Judging within a second is terrible to me. It’s only the mind not letting the heart give a chance to that person. People will be surprised if they can give that chance. It doesn't matter if there not the cutest person in the world, or have a new car or a lot of money. This world is too fast paced and people have forgotten about the true values of love. People today should take their time and think with their hearts. Let that flower bloom inside of you and reach out for the right person that will love you unconditionally. Their money, or job or whatever else you expected at one time will no longer made a difference., cause you truly love them for who they are, and not what they are about.
I don't like it when women are down on themselves and don't think they are good for anyone, and i hate it that guys make them feel that way. That is about the only thing I hate. Every woman is special in their own little way, and there special way should be only loved and respected. I think that if you can't do that, then don't get with them. Why get with someone you feel uncomfortable with on the inside? It’s only going to cause more damage down the road. To her, to him and if you have children, it will also damage them. Children need that sense of security of a loving home to be raised in to see the true values of a loving mom and dad to learn from, so they can carry it on in their life and love one the same as they was taught growing up. I'm only blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm just a average looking jeans and shirt kind of guy. I have a photo too if anyone wants to see. Send me a message if you would like to talk more.
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(Please put your email address in the email you send me, because my new isn't letting me reply back correctly. You might want to send the email twice. My is weird. Plus I’ll be able to know if your real. i keep getting so much spam. I answer back pretty fast. Thanks.)
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